WHY DON'T NON-BLACK MEN WANT TO DATE BLACK WOMEN? ASKING AS A BLACK MAN
Why don’t Non-Black men want to date Black women? Asking as a Black man. I worked in the Oakland Main Post Office at Xmas from 1970–1974. (I am white, and was one of two whites on a Black crew of 30.) Once I came across a young Black woman who posed seductively. I blurted out “You sre the sexiest woman I’ve ever seen!” Then I asked for her phone number. She gave it to me and I asked if she had a boyfriend. Unfortunately for me she did. I would have been quite happy to date her otherwise. I discovered in the Post Office that Blacks are much warmer, kinder and more generous than whites by far, snd I have admired you ever since. Hi, Caucasian male here. Can I ask where you got that idea from? I have had a preference to date black women almost all of my adult life. It's had a few moments that were awkward. My Mom reacted in a very surprising way that I didn't realize would show her bigotry when she found out about my first live in girlfriend. Who just happened to be black. Then t...